You’ve been dating you current girl for some years now and you have sent flowers by post to her on many occasions. You’re happy, you feel settled and content as to where you are in life. You have been nagged over time and more so these days about getting married. Even you girlfriends mum and family keep dropping hints. Its not that you don’t want to, its that you just haven’t thought about what you need to do and of course you want to make it special.
Trouble is if you’re honest with yourself, you’re a little lost on how to actually go about it.
This will probably be the biggest question you will ask somebody in your lifetime so that in of itself brings up feelings of anxiety and nervousness.
But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.
So you need to get some idea on where and what you are going to do. Are you going to propose in a place that has history in your relationship? Or maybe you will take her away on a romantic break and propose in somewhere like Paris or Rome? Lots to think about and that is going to depend on the budget. You will also have the ring to buy, flowers and maybe chocolates in addition to any travelling expenses.
It will serve you well if you take the time to create a special proposal because it will most likely be talked about many times. Your proposal will either be talked about with emotions of love, romance and fondness. Or it could be a memory that haunts you and her for the rest of your life.
Don’t forget to involve your girlfriends family. It is also the right thing to do to ask your girlfriends Father for permission to marry her. This one act alone get muster up additional respect for you as well as some bonus brownie points gained from your girlfriends family.
Get your timing right. There are specific times of the year when you can propose, Valentines Day is the most obvious but New Years Eve is also another popular time.
Get your plan together and we are with you all the way.